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what makes someone throw attitude ?

don’t they know its point blank irritating ?

i mean, i am really curious… do they want to show others .. “i hate your company” or “i feel like behaving properly only with better people”… or “sorry…i am thinking about something else.. you are too unimportant to be paid attention too” ??in any case either of the statements they make, with that trademark silence and purposeful disinterested / occasional angry looks doesn’t go down well with anyone sensible… there are some things everyone has to accept as a part of society… if you are too classy to accept it, then you can find a better fitment for yourself somewhere else… if you cannot do that, then you have to accept the norms existing and live with them… 

well, in public interest, i have done a li’ll research on why ppl give attitude, behave proudly, what goes behind it…

thankyou … :)

here goes some brief analysis :

reason one – it can be a troubled history of being treated unimportantly, and hence the constant psychological need to prove it wrong ..

alternative sensible solution to being proud - find the reason(s) why you were not noticed/liked/wanted, try to build some likeable traits in yourself.. it is possible… the world is still beautiful… yes.

reason two – it can be insecurity and fear of something that you want to hide and in the process of being defensive, you become more aggresive or atleast try to show that you are aggresively classy and/or proud..

alternative sensible solution to being proud – please try art of living, or meditation..  life is full of imperfections. everyone has them. that makes us live and keep going for something always..

reason three – you think too high of yourself (more than you actually deserve), maybe self esteem was built by someone else like an over caring parent etc who made you believe that even einstein was not as great as you are.. and everyone else on the earth is a lesser mortal..

alternative sensible solution to being proud - you need therapy. please see a psychiatrist.

5 Comments »

  zigmofreak wrote @

dude,its true to every word- i bet
seeing someone make it funny rather than fume bout it makes it feel as if there are others too like me who have been on the receiving end of such buggers

  cooldude1997 wrote @

good one..

  RaviRaves wrote @

Hey Attitude, :P , liked your thot very much.You can pen down ur thots so easily.AMAZED.
There are times when we feel that people throw an attitude.And ofcourse, its not a nice feeling at all.
In defense of these attention-seekers
Thinking abt it conversely, we feel it when we think that people are not heeding to us and in turn are hurt abt the fact that we are not given our due attention, that just goes to show we are attention seekers as well.
Also, being regularly grouped with those people, I can speak for some of those … who jus like me have an ugly blank expression even to the most interesting subjects.Maybe its all in the face :) So beware of prejudice.

  kubra wrote @

i think u r totally wrong man
attitude comes from within ,the people u hang around wit ,or coz of the situations u go through since u were young………
no one rubs it on u
people have to be damn matured to think so much then throw attitudeman
[it is natural,not fake]
its just the nature of wanting to stay ahead of everyone
.im known as the epitome of attitude
wats wrong wit tat?

  richa wrote @

hey kubra!!! its natural 2 want to try n stay ahead of people huh??? it only proves u wanna try cause u can naver be. why would anyone try if he is sure he is ahead. u only try 2 convince others cause u r not convinced urself. get a life n respect others…………… thats the eternal law- no ones gonna respect u till u respect others no matter how powerful u r . cause no ones living on ur favours here so all those who have attitude- DONT STOOP TO SUCH LEVELS GIVE N TAKE RESPECT LIVE WITH DIGNITY N CHILL OUT MAN U R NOT BORN 2 PROVE UR WORTH 2 OTHERS


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